Happy Simplicity Day

I do believe in simplicity. It is astonishing as well as sad, how many trivial affairs even the wisest thinks he must attend to in a day; how singular an affair he thinks he must omit. When the mathematician would solve a difficult problem, he first frees the equation of all incumbrances, and reduces it to its simplest terms. So simplify the problem of life, distinguish the necessary and the real. Probe the earth to see where your main roots run. - Henry David Thoreau

Simplicity Day is celebrated every year on July 12. This unofficial holiday commemorates the life, times and work of American philosopher and proponent of simple living, Henry David Thoreau.

In honor of the day, I’m reminded of Jason Fried’s latest book It Doesn’t Have to Be Crazy at WorkFor many, “It’s crazy at work” has become their normal. But why so crazy? There are two primary reasons: (1) The workday is being sliced into tiny, fleeting work moments by an onslaught of physical and virtual distractions. And (2) an unhealthy obsession with growth at any cost sets towering, unrealistic expectations that stress people out.

People are working more but getting less done. It doesn’t add up—until you account for the majority of time being wasted on things that don’t matter.  The answer isn’t more hours, it’s less waste. And far fewer distractions, less always-on anxiety, and avoiding stress.

Stress is passed from organization to employee, from employee to employee, and then from employee to customer. Stress never stops at the border of work, either. It bleeds into life. It infects your relationships with your friends, your family, your kids.

Click here for my summary of Fried’s It Doesn’t Have to Be Crazy at Work

Are You a Best Friend?

Be intentional to add value to every person you meet everyday. - John C. Maxwell

June 8th of every year is National Best Friends Day, which is all about celebrating the friendships that are so important to us.  Research reveals that friendships enrich our lives, boost our happiness, improve our self-confidence, and increase our sense of belonging and purpose.

In 2004, John Maxwell received a phone call from Dr. Les Parrott, who said, “John, I loved Winning with People.  I think you should write a sequel.”  So, in 2005, they co-authored 25 Ways to Win with People.

Their book provides specific strategies to learn specific skills that can be mastered in a matter of days.

Click here for my summary of 25 Ways to Win with People