Are You Humbitious?

Wait, was that a typo?  No, a little more than a year ago, I read an article entitled “Are you Humbitious enough to lead?”

“Humbition is one part humility and one part ambition,” wrote the author in the Leader to Leader Journal article. “We notice that by far the lion’s share of world-changing luminaries are humble people. They focus on the work, not themselves. They seek success—they are ambitious—but they are humbled when it arrives. They know that much of that success was luck, timing, and a thousand factors out of their personal control. They feel lucky, not all-powerful. [So] be ambitious. Be a leader. But do not belittle others in your pursuit of your ambitions. Raise them up instead. The biggest leader is the one washing the feet of the others.”

One of my leadership tips is to “Ask Questions…Don’t Give Answers.”  Nearly 6 months ago, I summarized John Maxwell’s Good Leaders Ask Great Questions.  I believe a leader can generate more creativity and innovation by relying on the team.  This takes humility.  The mark of humility is the Fruit of the Spirit Gentleness.  From the Greek Prautes (prah-OO-tace), it means leniency, generally in reference to that of a king or ruler.  This is not an expression of weakness; rather, gracious restraint and an outward expression of patience.  A Gentle Leader seeks to understand others.  Another good resource to consider is Lead with Humility:  12 Leadership Lessons from Pope Francis.

In November, I attended the Christian Leadership Alliance’s Leader2Leader Facilitation Training in Denver, Colorado.  During that training, I met some great leaders.  One was Jere Schertzer.  Jere said that he used this book as a platform to train leaders:  The Serving Leader: 5 Powerful Actions that will transform your team, your business, and your community by Ken Jennings & John Stahl-Wert (2003).  After reading it, I believe it’s particularly instructive to us as leaders shooting for the stars.

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Leaders Eat Last

On this Maundy Thursday, we start three days of solemn remembrance of the events leading up to and immediately following the crucifixion of Jesus. The English word “Maundy” comes from the Latin mandatum, which means “commandment.” As recorded in John’s gospel, on his last night before his betrayal and arrest, Jesus washed the feet of his disciples and then gave them a new commandment to love one another as he had loved them (John 13:34).

This is a different picture than what we generally see of the modern “macho” man in America.  According to research, the five most difficult statements for the modern man to make are:  (1) I don’t know; (2) I was wrong; (3) I need help; (4) I’m afraid; and (5) I’m sorry.  In other words, real men don’t admit vulnerability.  But Jesus provided a different example.  So did John the Baptist.  One of his best known statements was in reference to Jesus:  “He must become greater; I must become less” (John 3:30).

There’s nothing phony about John’s humility—it’s real.  He has come to grips with who he is in relation to Jesus.  A humble man is not afraid to admit it.

Interestingly, Simon Sinek has found similar traits when researching leaders in industry.  Check out my summary of his latest book, Leaders Eat Last.

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