Category: Family Leadership

Thankful for a Revolutionary Parent

Wayne Smith, celebrating earning his Ph.D., with daughters Kim (left) and Jennifer (right)

Today would have been my father-in-law’s 87th birthday.  Last October, we celebrated his life and legacy (see my post here). 

This week, Jennifer and I spent a “kidless” week in Amarillo, Texas, hiking in Palo Duro Canyon and enjoying the outdoor musical, Texas!  Jennifer stayed a few extra days with her Mom.  Over the past week, I can’t help but be grateful for my wife and her relationship with Jesus Christ.  As readers of my blog understand well, I am strongly shaped by books—and with “Learner” as one of my signature strengths—I seek to learn from many good authors.

Nearly ten years ago, Jennifer and I looked for a study on parenting and ran across George Barna’s Revolutionary Parenting: Raising Your Kids to Become Spiritual Champions.  I definitely consider Jennifer a “spiritual champion” and credit much of that to her upbringing by her parents.

Click here to learn more about Revolutionary Parenting

A Simple Message for Fathers & Sons

Men, do you want to see your sons and grandsons grow to become godly, mature men with integrity and spiritual convictions?

You’ll find inspiration in Steve Farrar’s character study of the Old Testament kings and the role they played in mentoring their sons, entitled King Me: What Every Son Wants and Needs from His Father.

Consider Deuteronomy 6, which provides a great job description for fathers:

Job #1:  Love God Deeply

Job #2:  Teach Your Son Diligently

Every son wants discipline & understanding.  It’s a father’s role to guide, providing correction and direction.

Fathers also can play a key role in helping their sons discover their God-ordained purpose, calling, and gifts.

Bottom line is that sons need a plan…and fathers can help.

I’m thankful my Dad has lived out this job description and supported me in my calling, encouraging me with my gifts and to have a plan for the future.  Thank you, Dad!

My Dad (Robert Allen Pyle) with my Son (Cody Allen Pyle) and Mom (Judy) at Cody’s High School Graduation in June 2021